Tuesday 13 August 2013

DOUALA CAMEROON: FROM THE EYES OF AN EXPATRIATE WIFE- 1



FIRST IMPRESSIONS
Landing at the airport about 10 months ago presented a bouquet of mixed feelings. Although the first fear I nursed was that of the language but luckily many people here are bilingual, a rare opportunity for a first-timer like me in a French colony.  As we moved through the airport, I asked myself, an airport or an airstrip? But I soon realized several constructions were ongoing so it was a  good sign that some significant development was certainly in the offing. This first impression is particularly true as you drive into the town which details the level of improvement required for the country to meet the west.

A complete juxtaposition of the old and new, albeit the old building sharply dominating the new ones. There are new high rise apartment sprawling just close enough to old one-story dilapidated duplexes.
Living in Douala especially as an expatriate requires some preparation and advice from ''veteran expat'' who have had a taste of the baptism. Adjusting to Life in Douala can be initially tough because of language barrier (if you don’t speak French), cultural shock and life style. However when well settled, living in Douala can be quiet, serene and peaceful especially if you have just exited a busy city. Although so much for first Impressions, many were proven true.

THE  PEOPLE
Douala gave me an unexpected level of cultural shock. Of course I knew I would have to make some adjustment, but I assumed more common behavioural pattern. Though there are few similarities, the differences are enormous.
One of the most striking differences is our attitude to work. An average francophone guy is laid back, motivated by the food he needs to eat in the immediacy other than future plans; and is not aggressive about moving with speed. They are slow and can’t be bothered. People who sell can also be a bit hostile when dealing with customers. A typical French shop closes from 12noon to 2.30pm, that's the French break!  Resumption is at will across several organisations.

Another shock was also the level of single motherhood in Cameroon especially among young girls who are barely working. Having children out of wedlock is almost a certainty at late teens Expectations are not very high on getting married. The conflict between the Anglophone Cameroon and francophone Cameroon has been inevitably extended to Non-Cameroonians who speak English as their first language. Once you speak English, you are prone to certain doses of hostility.

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